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Annie's Garden

9/12/2016

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It's not yet autumn, but cool mornings like today's remind me that it soon will be. 

As I finished my walk on this glorious morning, I had to pause to appreciate my newly landscaped yard. I had the plans drawn up over eight years ago, but landscaping is expensive, especially for someone living on a semi-retired budget. I don't know when -- or even if -- I would have done this work without the money my mother left me.  In a very real sense, this is Anne's garden. 

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My mother loved my ongoing home renovations of the past 20 years. I think she appreciated that, like her, I'd found a way to turn the grief of divorce into something worthwhile. She was my biggest cheerleader as I transformed this house, room by room, into the home I envisioned. 

These butterfly bushes have grown a lot since  they were planted in June. Their long, fragrant trusses attract bees and butterflies all day long.

My mother adopted the butterfly as her totem years ago. I think of her every time I look out my window, especially when one comes adorned in her favorite color.


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Karen
9/12/2016 03:10:32 pm

What a lovely way to remember and appreciate your mom and the beautiful times you shared. Brava, Barb and Annie!

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Janice McElroy
9/12/2016 03:53:30 pm

I really enjoy the blogs about remembering your mother. You should do more.

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Barb Didrichsen
9/13/2016 11:20:41 am

More coming! I'm working on an especially long piece that I hope to have ready within 2-3 weeks.

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Lucy
9/14/2016 01:24:33 am

Beautiful!! I know all now as well about the semi-retired constraints. Redoing my garden step by step as well. It's a minimum 4-year plan. But your newly landscaped one was worth waiting for ;-) What a lovely tribute xxx

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Gail Nolte
9/14/2016 06:30:49 am

Barb, have you considered writing a book?

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Barb Didrichsen
9/14/2016 08:19:11 am

Gail, I'm actually using this blog as a way to capture the writing that may eventually become a memoir. We'll see.

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